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A bit extreme right? Thankfully we, as a community, have adapted more subtle, and even professional options for the collar. Women from Queen Elizabeth to Queen Victoria wore collars proudly, and it even spread among the Native American collaring bdsm as well, high necklaces created of bird bones, or thick animal hide to protect the neck. Long story short, for years this has been a practice, and an interesting one at that.

Before I continue, I would like to take a moment to inform you that collaring in the BDSM community is not as simple as say, gifting someone a box of chocolates. To give someone a collar in the BDSM community generally symbolizes a transition in the relationship.

A collar could be equated to an engagement collaring bdsm, or wedding band depending on which collar you are given, or giving. If you are Dom, or Sub, a collar is not something you should approach day one. I have seen many people make a face at the mention of collaring, after all. Even as a Dom who loves the practice, I know the idea that pops into an unenlightened mind when you bring up the idea. A gaudy, unfashionable dog collar. Granted, SOME collars have a resemblance, but there are far more suitable options for the professional man or woman, or non binary.

There are comfortable, stylish collars, and there are some more for play time, house wear, and so many more. I will include examples later. For now? Keep in mind that any of these steps may be skipped, and it is about what works for you as a duo. It shows devotion, but not necessarily loyalty. Consider it like a test drive collar.

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Taking this collar shows collaring bdsm Doms that you are giving things a chance to grow with one specific Dominant. Any collar will caution a cultured Dominant from approaching a Submissive, and doing so is considered a serious violation of protocol. A consideration collar is often blue, though that fact is rarely known. Stay tuned for the next post on protocol and what the different levels entail. At any stage during this level of Collaring either one of you can call off the relationship. It is no more a consideration for the Dom, than it is for the Sub. If the relationship is brought to a close, the Sub should remove the collaring bdsm, and give it back to the Dom.

The Dom is to purchase the collar, and have it back, should the relationship end. A Sub who keeps a collar from a Dom she is no longer serving is considered highly disrespectful. In BDSM couples very much train each other. Doms and Subs, Slaves and Masters. As with Kitten. When we lay together I want her leg over me. She has learned that, and now pretty much any time we lay down, she moves her leg over mine, like reflex.

Things of this nature.

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This shows that both of you are ready to commit to the needs of the other, and it shows things like, honor, loyalty, trust, and love. If you plan to Collar a Submissive in this level, personally I suggest having a few friends around that are aware of your dynamic, to make the moment a bit more special. Take a few steps to make the event memorable. Take pictures, or record it! Often times you will live together with your partner, and be more comfortable with each others moreā€¦. Perhaps the things that insecurity and trust issues had led you to mask.

Which is common. But before the final collaring, this issue should be resolved, and you should have no secrets. Meeting the families, meeting kids if there are any. Collars at this level are usually leather, red or black, but can also be substituted for a chain. Generally here you will see different collars for different occasions. Again, examples to follow the post! And again, Doms. If you see a collared Sub, and you approach and do not request permission to speak with the Submissive from the collaring Dom, it can wreak hell on your reputation.

What an honor, both to give or receive a full collar. This is a wedding ring in BDSM culture. This collar shows that you have committed fully to your partner, Sub or Dom. When the time comes for a full collar it shows a deep emotional bond, as well as sincere trust and devotion at the highest of levels. A Sub accepting the collar is a way of showing absolute submission by trust, and dedication. This collar should be given with a ceremony including friends, vows, poetry, music, and a celebration.

This to the BDSM community is the equivalent of marriage. With these collars comes a certain understanding of protocol and the general rules of the BDSM community at large. These rules vary by area, and the protocol level of the events you attend and they can get a bit confusing. You can also use bracelets, watches, rings, or other jewelry though I myself have always preferred collars and locking collars.

Play collars usually have little to no meaning, and are only used during scenes. Collaring bdsm I provided a few examples of those as well. Freelance Writer and experience junkie with a love for history, travel, and anything out of the ordinary! View all posts by Jay Lawson. You are commenting using your WordPress. You are commenting using your Google. You are commenting using your Twitter. You are commenting using your Facebook.

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